My Ah Mah has just left us last Friday morning. I only knew abt her pass-away in the afternoon though.... Anyway, she has reached her 101 years of age and it was considered a blessing, according to the Chinese custom.
As our family is very traditional, the funeral went according to the very Chinese way:
-- The funeral at void deck
-- All family members to wear white top and colour-coded pants (Black for sons/daughter of Ah Mah, Blue for Ah Mah's grandchildren and green for great-grandchildren)
-- Engaging monks and some buddhists to chant prayers for Ah Mah
-- The usual folding of "gold-papers" to burn for Ah Mah to use in the other world
-- Burning of big house, with maids, cars, money for Ah Mah...
-- Engaging a live band for the procession
-- Walking bare-footed (actually all of us wore socks only) for a distance before proceeding to crematorium
Anyway here's some picture for remembrance...

The altar was set up in the void deck....
A band was engaged to create "noise", which was a must... According to the Chinese tradition, the procession must be lively with loud music so as to appear grand....
During the last day, just before the procession, we decorated the coffin with flowers....

And then we proceed to the crematorium....
I wasn't expecting this, but it really caught me by surprise! There's a viewing gallery inside the crematorium. All of us were suppose to witness the "burning" of my Ah Mah, which proved to be traumatising to some of the younger children.
What amazed me was, everything was AUTOMATED!
The coffin was placed on a machine, along a "track". See the black lines on the floor? These are tracks for the machine to move.
Then, slowly, in front of all our eyes, the coffin was slowly transported towards the end, whereby (I donno what's the term) the "oven" awaits....
The metal cage opened slowly and I saw the FIRE! Sparks of fire and flashes appeared and the coffin was lifted slowly towards the fire...
At this moment, most of the members were crying very loudly. It is actually very traumatising to see your loved-ones being lifted slowly and pushed towards FIRE... Quite scary sia....
Anyway, that's the end of everything... The altar plates were then transported to "Guan Ming Shan" aka "Bright Hill Temple"....

Well, actually for the 5-day funeral, I barely remember much as I wasn't very involved. Anyway, I am happy for my Ah Mah, as she is on her way to heaven , having lived a ripe old age, without much pain.... I hope she will be happier in wherever she would be in now....
ahahah!!! Well, can't blame me wo... He is really a charming guy... A good actor and singer... Although he's alreadty 43 years old this year, he is still forever so charming lor... And I have always love guys that are older.. Haha!!! See his wrinkles?? So charming, right???









We went for the 3.25pm show and the show was definitely Hilarious!!!! 





Haha,
Anyway, we reached the
We found Lian's fren and we just missed the 740pm show. So the next one (which is also the last one) will be at 840pm. See the free ticket? So good wor!!! Think it cost abt S$6 per ticket for a 20 min show...


Well....
I was one of them wor!!! HAHAH!!!






Took a cute 




